My cousin, Happy April 30th Day! Miss You

Simon, Hello, how are you? 4 year la.... you left us 4 years la.... thinking of you.... May god bless you happy and peacefully at your side... Miss you Much Your cousin Yan Bil Jei

幾個月了, 大佬, 您好嗎? 家人都好嗎? 今天, 我才第一次到這兒.... 叫偉倫做大佬, 因為細佬偉業的關係, 中學時, 我這個常常不想回家的頑皮仔, 不時放學後就跟偉業一起返勵德邨, 一起看足球, 談足球, 打機, 還記得你說你在學校踢波多威水...等等。您家人都叫我做四眼仔。 也記不起是哪一年您的生日, 我用了百多塊送了一支原子筆給您做生日禮物。百多塊的一份禮物, 對於一個當時還在念中學的我, 也算花了不少的零用錢了, 哈哈。 那些年, 我們星期六不用返學的日子也有時候一起踢波, 甚至試過跟你一門幾傑(你, 偉業, 家樂表弟)一起踢... 時間飛逝, 回想已經是二十幾年前的事, 我們都快40歲了。 出來工作後已經很少到您家, 甚至跟偉業的見面都少了, 我們中學"媽記"舊同學踢波時就變成我們唯一的見面機會。 您不是"媽記", 但經常都是我們最佳外援。 年紀越大, 見面越少。 有次在柴灣踢波, 您被急勁的球省破眼角, 我和偉業帶你到東區醫院, 那次, 我第一次見阿嫂。 您買樓, 孩兒的出生, 我從偉業口中得悉。 第一次見到承熹, 還是透過足球。有次媽記踢波您這個"稀客"帶他過來了。我也豆他玩了一下。很可愛和醒目的小朋友。 最後一次見您, 也是透過踢波, 那次我老婆和我當時差不多快到一歲的女兒也在。那次, 我老婆也逗承熹玩逗他說話。 噩耗的傳來只是最後見面的兩個星期左右, 為何這樣? 上個月某日經過大坑, 看到勵德邨, 想起您, 想起喪子未多久的uncle & auntie, 我當時有個衝動走上去看看, 但又怕太過唐突, 最後沒有去了, 而選擇了call偉業。聽偉業說一切還好。 今天醒來, 突然想起這個website, 心血來潮上來看看, 看到Amy的文章, 我哭了。 我叫偉倫做大佬, 希望Amh您不介意我叫您做阿嫂。 雖然我不甚認識您, 但阿嫂, 承熹的成長路程, 真的真的辛苦您, 您得好好保重, 母當父職, 讓承熹好好成長。

偉倫, 你近來好嗎? 上星期六, 熹熹終於跟采嬈表姐們到維多利亞公園玩, 雖然只是短短的一小時, 不過我知道還有很多很多機會。 只是我們無法見面吹水,(你還記得你離開前的星期日來電約我們) 但我知道你在天上是看到我們一起玩樂, 一樣跟我們一起微笑 心裡有很多事情想跟你說, 不過我會跟熹熹同Amy 分享, 好讓他知道他的爸爸兒時那些頑皮的事情, 不要學你成日戲弄媽媽!!!!!現在我失去了你這個表弟, 但我多了一個表妹 (不是表嫂了)! 我會多跟她聯絡, 令她覺得她絕不是孤單作戰, 相信你的好友都會一樣。 放心吧!

Simon, 很懷念你的球風。作為後衛的我，每次面對你從中場引球進攻，都要在出迎還是放邊做一決定。放邊我不夠你快，出迎又給你扭過，就算企定mark都無用，因為你射術很好，你一推一射我們這班元老對手只能望住個波curve入掛網。球王你真係好勁，球品又超好，每次跟你們隊踢球都很高興。謝謝你留給我們開心的回憶。 King Wa

致吾愛Simon Simon 今天是2012年11月6日, 你已離開了我們18天. 對你已離世的事實已消化了. 可是我發現我們對你的思念好像日益的在加劇. 熹熹昨晚在床上睡前又問起 “爸爸呢 ? “ 這幾天他都不時在問起你. 我不給他回應, 他會把我之前給他的答案說一次” 爸爸不再回來了, 爸爸以後永遠活在我們的心裡”; 然後他會加上自已在11月2日出殯當日的所見及所聽的補充道: ”爸爸在柴灣, 禁制之後落了去”. 爸爸你有聽見嗎? 我們的孩子一點也不笨, 你為什麼那麼的憂心? 爸爸呀. 現在家里的每個人都好想好想你. 你是我們家的靈魂, 即使你睡不好, 精神不足時, 只會坐在沙發上, 或只顧上網做你喜歡做的事, 只要有你在身邊我們便有無限的安全感. 前天到你媽媽家晚飯, 才知道你新買了一張LION KING 3 的DVD 給熹熹看. 你在世間39年, 留下許多美麗足跡, 與你交往過的人都有一定程度美好回憶. 你對父母非常孝順, 當他們有要求, 你都盡量滿足老人家. 對感情是百分百的專一. 對每一個人都友善和藹. 這種種的角色, 都不及你一個爸爸這角色來得使我訝異. 一個新手爸爸, 一個從來不會做家務的大男孩, 從初生的BB第一天回到家, 便 由爸爸你為他洗澡, 即使你要OT, 你都不要假手他人, 緊持由自己一手來做.通常你會一邊為BB 洗澡, 一邊模仿小孩子語調哼唱” 小小的宇宙, 歡欣的宇宙, 蹦蹦跳 哈哈笑是我小時候, 小小的宇宙, 天真的宇宙, 真的我 真的你 , 唔係小木偶……”當時都給你的父愛感動了. 心想我們的孩子多幸運有個這樣可愛的爸爸. 其他的事情如洗奶瓶, 沖奶, 喂奶, 掃風, 沒有什麼可以難到你. 到孩子再大一點, 每每能逗的BB 開懷大笑都是爸爸你. BB最喜歡與爸爸玩. 我也是第一次親眼看見, 幾個月大的BB會親近爸爸多於媽媽. 因為爸爸比媽媽更懂的他的須要. 小孩漸漸長大, 你為他安排了各式各樣的活動, Playgroup, 親子音樂課, TAEKWONDOO, 親子田徑比賽, 親子游泳班 etc. 這一切切都是你為他安排. 你的目的只想他開開心心地成長.每當有人問起你小孩的名字由來時, 你都很自豪的解釋道: 希望他秉承爸爸的長處及人生充滿喜樂及光彩. 只要小孩在成長過程向前走了一小步, 都足以使你展開你的招牌燦爛笑容. 從來不會有不合理或過多的要求. 也從不把他與其他小朋友作比較.每當熹熹不聽話, 我失控呼喝他的時候, 你總會告訢我小孩是這樣的, 你不能發他俾氣. 要有耐性. 是的, 這幾年里, 無論熹熹多頑皮, 你從來沒有大聲教訓過他. 冷靜地罰他捉住耳朵及罰他口念”以後不敢xxxx” 8月暑假你已開始為選小學的事情開始準備,你心中的其中之一的選擇是你母校的附屬小學, 但你為了找到真正合適環境給小孩及給自己一些後路. 自己參加了一些講座及一些學校的開放日, 為熹熹物色適合他的小學.還說不用我操心. 當時我心情是矛盾, 因為你太累了, 看你的眼肚便知你有多累, 長期睡不好, 能應付得來嗎? 另一方面, 也很欣慰, 因為有你的主導我可以不必花太多時間在這方面.當時我卻沒有向你坦白. 你現在還會陪他在床上翻筋斗, 玩珠心算(你為了可以親自教他, 在暑假自去學珠心算更取了証書), 陪他游泳 ect…. 太多太多的東西, 只有你爸爸你的能奈及智慧才有本事做得來. 我完全做不來. 你永遠無人能取代替的. 有人說人死後有靈魂仍存在, 我現在真心希望其真有. 現在除了伴隨思念你而來的淚水, 還有強烈的悲悔. Simon 能在生命中遇上你是我的幸運. 可不幸的是你遇上了一個租心大意的我. 在你須要人關愛的日子, 沒有能力及時給你好好照顧, 亦未有盡妻子應有的責任與你分憂. 使你獨自承受一切. 對不起, 對不起. 請你原諒. 現在我可以做的只有盡我所能依你的期望使熹熹健康快樂成長. 感謝你過去18年給我的一切. 永遠懷念你陽光般的笑容, 一個令人一見可以傾心的笑容, 常說可以使人會心微笑不經意的笑話, 一個帶給人歡笑的使者. 盼你在另一國度快活地過你想過的生活. 期待有一天能在他國度再會. 你的愛永遠與我們同在 Amy 6 Nov 2012

I had known Simon for a few months in HKU. He always appeared as a cheerful person, passionate and dedicated to his career. The last conversation I had with him, probably was in Sep 2012, an evening after work. We met each other in Des Voeux Rd West in Western District, where he usually took a minibus to travel to the Kowloon side directly. As there was an event held in Cyberport a few days ago, and some IT colleagues help to take photos in the dinner. Simon asked me whether the food in the Chinese restaurant was good. I said yes, though it maybe a bit expensive for the dishes in such a high-class restaurant. Then Simon replied that maybe some days later he would take his son to try the food there. Then, I realized that Simon often kept his son in mind. May the Lord bless that the boy grows happily and healthily, just as how Simon had wished. And Father God's arms embrace him always, with abundance of joy and peace everyday. And his family can experience blessing from different sources, without a tiny bit of lacking.

你係一個好好、好好嘅隊友, 同你踼過好多場波, 我從未見個你埋怨/ 鬧隊友, 亦冇見過你固意踼傷對手, 就算我地輸D大意波, 你都只係笑一笑, 冇怪隊友.....一路好走......球場上嘅君子....... Yu

除咗教我數學, 踢足球同睇足球都係我哋成日做嘅活動. 我哋應該係由1986世界盃開始一齊睇波, 你嘅阿根廷喺決賽嬴咗我嘅西德, 你應該就係由嗰時開始鍾意馬勒當拿.

Wai Lun was thin at teenage but have a fat 'pat pat'. So I've called him 'Big Pat Lun(大籮倫)'. As it seemed he disliked this name, so I changed to call 'Big......Brother Lun(大...哥倫).Since then, I always called him Big Brother Lun. I'm not close to him in St. Paul and didn't see him after graduation. It was about 16 years ago when my cousin and I finished our tea at McDonald in Wan Chai and heard a person called me when I was arriving. It was Big Brother Lun. He was very far away from me. If it was another person, most probably he or she just let me leaving. We talked for about five minutes, telling each other what we were doing now. He saw my cousin wearing a football wear and he talked football with him. The last time I met him was about seven years ago at an old classmate gathering but didn't talk with him as I didn't sit beside him. I was surpised of his departure and impressed by the sad atmosphere at the funeral, one that I never met before. I was also in very difficult times in the past several years. If we can again meet in McDonald and have tea together earlier this year, it would be another result. Lastly, to Brother Lun's family, I here hope all of you will be well and be brave to live on. Although it's hard and painful sometimes but it was the only thing we can do for ourshelves and Big Brother Lun. I'll miss Brother Lun everytime when I passed the McDonald in Wan Chai C C Wu Building.

我讀書成績真係好一般, 不過數學呢一科對我嚟講都算係非常突出, 就係因為有你嘅悉心教導先有咁嘅成績, Thanks!

仲記得科大Final Year Project我地係同組。大學幾年生活功課中，最經典可以算係Elec152個Project。 五人同組做觸屏計算機，阿國做用戶介面，阿權做遊戲，大頭做核心程式，我同你負責觸屏電路硬件。硬件由資料搜集、設計、組裝、測試、優化等等都係同你一齊攪。整好硬件又同軟件連接。時間唔夠，成品未盡完善。通宵衝刺，最後居然有九十幾分，幾近滿分，大家都好開心，可以說是喜出望外。我地大家一早約定同組同功同一分數。 朋友嘛，共同進退，同甘共苦。

I dint know Simon well, but I ran into him often at work. The one thing I remember about him is that he had this great smile, one of those smiles that adds some colour to your day when you receive it.

中學時代的Simon,足球造詣十分出眾,在一次比賽中,曾用右腳直射罰球彎過人牆貼柱入網,當時的情境我仍然歷歷在目. 永遠懷念您.

Simon is a good guy. He is a responsible person.

Missing You - (By Diana Ross) Since you've been away I've been down and lonely Since you've been away I've been thinking of you Trying to understand The reason you left me What were you going through? I'm missing you Tell me why the road turns Ooh ooh I'm missing you Tell me why the road turns As I look around I see things that remind me Just to see you smile Made my heart fill with joy I'll still recall All those dreams we shared together Where did you run to, boy? I'm missing you Tell me why the road turns Ooh ooh I'm missing you Tell me why the road turns Sometimes I've wondered I didn't understand Just where you were trying to go Only you knew the plan And I tried to be there But you wouldn't let me in But now you've gone away boy I feel so broken hearted I knew the day we started That we were meant to be If only you'd let me! I've cried so many tears Gotta face now all my fears We let time slip away I need you boy Here today! There was so much you gave me To my heart To my soul There was so much of your dreams That were never told You had so much hope For a brighter day Why were you my flower Plucked away I'm missing you Tell me why the road turns Ooh ooh I'm missing you Tell me why the road turns

Thank you for setting up this memorial to Simon Ng. We hope that you find it a positive experience developing the site and that it becomes a place of comfort and inspiration for you to visit whenever you want or need to.

I am I and you are you, whatever we were to each other that we still are. Speak to me in the easy way which you always used. Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight? Life means all that it ever meant, it is the same as it ever was.

看看Simon的人生，談談你心目中的Simon， 說說Simon與你之間的大事，小事，瑣事，佚事，開心事，難忘事， 讓承熹從另一角度認識自己的爸爸，也讓Simon的點點滴滴，伴承熹成長。

Simon 叔叔： 我還記得我小時候你教我放風箏和燒烤的點點滴滴。我三歲時你教我燒雞翼，你叫我數「1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 轉…」你總是逗得我哈哈大笑。 我希望你，無論到了那裡，都會歡笑常在。永遠懷念你的永浩上。